Wedding Planner

Now that you've recovered from the fabulous shock of your engagement, take a deep breath, grab a notebook and an address book (to enlist the help of friends and family, of course !), and then let the countdown to the Big Day begin !

1. Envision your wedding from beginning to end. Where have you dreamed the wedding would take place? How formal would you like the event to be? What kind of food would you like to serve?

2. Pick a date.

3. Set a budget - one that is functional and provides for some flexibility. Here is where you must combine fantasy with practicality.

4. Ask friends and family for references for a reputable jeweler. Order your engagement and/or wedding rings.

5. Book the wedding and reception sites.

6. Meet with the officiant of your wedding. Now is the time to be clear on rules and restrictions regarding the ceremony and ceremony site.

7. Select your wedding attendants - your wedding party can be as big or small, as you like.

8. Choose a dress and wedding attire for the rest of the wedding party.

9. Make a guest list. You may have to compromise between the size of your guest list and the details of your fantasy wedding.

10. Plan your pre-wedding parties, ceremony, reception and honeymoon - consider menus, decorations, favors and music.

11. Interview and hire vendors - wedding coordinator, photographer, video professional, caterer, florist and entertainment.

12. Check state requirements for obtaining marriage licenses - double-check license expiration dates.

13. Get down to the nitty gritty - create your paper trail, from invitations to gift registries.

Tips:

• Check in with parents early on in the planning stage to get their input.
• Are kind to yourself and your betrothed - this can be an extremely stressful time.
• Keep a notebook to fill with things like swatches of fabric, notes and vendor contracts.
• Be sure to allow yourself and your partner to get away and work on your relationship.